But one thing’s for sure – you’re thinking about him all the time. You start worrying that you might do or say something to mess things up.Maybe you’re checking his Facebook page…or doing some research on him online. You try to figure out what he’s thinking about you, or why he said this or did that.Go out for coffee with friends, and spark up a conversation with other people. Join clubs, visit your bookstore and browse for a while. If you’ve always wanted to learn a new skill, why not kill two birds with one stone?Going into class, everyone’s starting out on the same foot and open to helping and getting to know each other.
But here’s something you really need to know: Even though he might not know any of this is going on, it starts tipping things with him against your favor. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT HIM TOO MUCH: Over-thinking about a man is work.
Sometimes it’s through choice – to find ourselves and to love ourselves before we let others love us. Sometimes, it’s through a complete lack of choice or not meeting anyone that didn’t make your skin scrawl for what feels like a decade.
After these spells of singledom often comes someone new – someone who you want to see more than once and who you now have to make time for.
Jackson*, a sophomore at York University, took a weekly culinary class where he met his former girlfriend.
“I was surprisingly not too bad at cooking but my cute partner was awful at it.